Recently I had a woman call me and told me that her 40 year old boyfriend and her have been together for two years and in those two years, he's constantly been cheating on her.
To me this seemed like a no brainer. This is SIMPLE! So before I answer this question,I hope women already know the answer, so this blog shouldn't be too long.
The reason your man CONTINUES to cheat on you is because YOU KEEP LETTING HIM!!! HELLO!!! Remember the woman is in control. You have the power and as long as YOU continue to let him behave like that and keep taking him back. Remember this ladies the only time you can CHANGE a man is when he's in diapers. Don't even try to change a man at 40 years old. He is who he is and if he's cheating on you now and your not even married, I have news for you honey, he's going to be cheating on you when he's married to you.
So I really do hope you see that your man is who he is and is not going to change for you. You're the one who has the say whether he stays or whether he goes. I'm glad you sought my advice but this was a no brainer.
My question to you is this, WHY do you allow this? Why do you disrespect yourself like this? You should love yourself more than you love him and respect yourself more than you respect him. If you love yourself, then you won't allow yourself to love a man who continues to disrespect you like this. Get out now! He's not going to change and if you stay, he will continue to cheat.
I wish you the best!
For questions or advice, please email me at prisology101@gmail.com.
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