Friday, February 11, 2011

California Gurl no longer sees Fireworks?

Katy Perry denies marriage counselling rumours

Is three months too soon for couples therapy? I think not! Although representatives for both Katy and Russell Brand deny reports of them attending couples therapy after three months, I still choose to blog about this relationship.
So here you have your typical "Hollywood" couple, ROCK STAR  meets ACTOR. Let's remember Hollywood years are like dog years, 1 year of being married in Hollywood is like 7 years in non-Hollywood. So seeking therapy after 3 months is normal. Right? The first year is always the hardest year, learning to adjust to the whole "we're OFFICIALLY TOGETHER on paper now".  It can be a little intimidating, but if you really love each other, then it's TOTALLY worth it.
For any marriage to work, it takes commitment, sacrifice and communication and love and I think in order for this to work (which I USUALLY hope that it does) they should definitely go to therapy and have the therapist help them out before they and make typical Hollywood mistakes, and then divorce.
NOW-Katy Perry is about to go on Tour while Russell brand will be filming his new movie which means there be lots of time apart from each other. From my Research Katy has set time out in between her tour to be able get away and go spend time with her Honey. YAY! This is very important as well as the communication. Hopefully they have the technology to be able to communicate on a daily basis via, text, phone call and video chat with each other (with all their money, they better have all of that)
My advice to anyone in this situation (which is all of us right? he he) is go to the therapy, follow the therapists advice, have a game plan of how they will see each other and communicate with each other when they are away. This helps also the other person feel secure in their relationship and lets the other person know, "hey even though we're apart, I'm still with ya"! TRUTH! If they stick to this and hopefully they do, then the marriage will not only last longer but become stronger.
Sooooo  "IF" the rumors are true, then more power to sista woman, Katy Perry. Obviously she loves her husband and wants to work at it or be proactive in the marriage, which all people who have been married, know it’s not an easy journey whether you’re in Hollywood or NOT!

3 comments:

  1. Please feel free to send any relationship questions you may have to prisology101@gmail.com

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  2. Great post! I think that open communication is important in any relationship but especially in marriage. I see nothing wrong with couples wanting to strengthen their marriage with counseling no matter how long they've been married. It's too bad that not many Hollywood couples follow in their footsteps!

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  3. Latin Lover...

    In my opinion I really honestly think he is either gay or bi-sexual. I think its a great idea they are going through counseling. But come on this is Hollywood your talking about. I can buy a pair of sneakers and they will last me longer that a hollywood marriage. Just Sayin!

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